Monday, May 23, 2016

Springing into Summer

Life is so good!  I have been meaning to blog for a while now and get sad thinking I haven't been because I don't want to forget how amazing life has been to us lately!

We have been making lots of progress on our house.  The yard is now level and starting to grow grass.  We strung up the lights I have always wanted and planted our garden.  Liam loves being outside so I have a feeling that is where the majority of our summer will be spent!

Alexa and Dillon got married this weekend!  Eric was able to fly out for the wedding and all three of them will be in Texas this summer.  Amber and Trevor have a home in Oklahoma.  I miss them so much and will miss Lex, Dillon and Blub! 

Trev and I took a trip to Hawaii last month!  Trev was auditing BYU HI so I came out on the tail end and we spent a week in Kauai!  It was hard leaving Liam for a week!  We missed him so much!  It was good to have a break though! 

I just started a job last month as well!  It is for Garrett Capital, Inc. and I work a couple hours a day.  Luckily, I am able to work from home and Jessalyn is my supervisor!  It is a perfect job and a good opportunity to stay in the Finance world.

Our days are really busy!  Between chasing Liam and working on the house we don't get much down time!  But we wouldn't have it any other way!

Liam: you are...

Liam: You are so amazing! You keep mom and dad smiling; most of the time!  You are a little stinker sometimes.  You have a strong personality.  You know what you want and are pretty good at communicating those things to us.  If you want a toy that you can't reach, you will come over to me and go "eh eh" til you get my attention.  Then you pat your tummy with both hands and point where you want me to go.  You walk a ways and look back to make sure I am following!  It is pretty sweet.  When I get your toy for you (which is usually a stuffed animal), you grasp it with the biggest hug and smile.

You learned to walk!  You took your first steps a couple days after your first birthday.  You quickly went from walking to running.  You are a busy bug!

You know some sign language!  At about a year old you started signing "more" and "all done".  Now you say "please" and it melts me!  How can we not give you chocolate after you brush your hand across your chest five times and smile? 

You hate going to bed! When I am getting ready to lay you down you immediately sign "please" and point to the door a good number of times.  It breaks my heart!  
You love balls! 
You like to be a big boy and copy mom. If I am sweeping you want to sweep; if I am stirring food, you want to; if I am in a big chair, you want to be in one. 

You LOVE mangos and blueberries lately.  You eat mangos like dad does and eat it off the skin til it is bare.

You always want to be outside!  You will bring us your coat and shoes and point outside! Your favorite toy is your red Little Tikes car.  You mostly love opening the door, climbing in, getting out, and closing the door again. 
You also love helping mom dig in the garden and eating the dirt. 
If dad is mowing the lawn you just HAVE to be held by him.  You get a big grin after he picks you up.

You like to do things on your own.  It takes you a million years to eat because you try to spoon things up by yourself.  If I get a spoonful for you, you shake it off and start over!

You are social!  If we go to the park you always try to keep up with the big kids.  One time, there were two girls going down the slide.  After going down they would come give you a hug.  Next time we went to the park you started hugging all the kids!  It was adorable, but the kids weren't that amused.

You love blowing kisses! And giving knuckles!
You love playing with dad! 



Sunday, January 10, 2016

Making it through

After scanning Instagram, I came to the realization that most people think of it as an accomplishment when they "make it through" a month, year, 5 years, of something in their life.  That something is often when they have a baby, complete the first semester of college, been married x amount of years, and things like that.  This made me think of my life, after having Liam for a month, was I glad I just made it through?  After being married for a year, did I look back and think, wow we "made it through" the year?  To me, this makes everything seem like a task we just have to endure.  This made me a little sad and I hope we don't just try to make it through life.  This lead me to my next thought.  I recently saw on a show that a lady wrote a book and it was about going through life and how we can run into different circumstances that make up our experiences in life.  For example, our parents moved to this town next to this person and that person became my friend.  Did I choose to be friends with that person, or did it just happen because of my circumstance?   I worked at Conservice because I was living in Logan and they hired me.  Did I choose to work there, or did it just happen by circumstance?
I think my life is filled with a little of both choices and things that fell in my lap.  I reflected on this a bit and hope to choose to not just make it through life.  I hope I don't just do things in life because I happen to run into the circumstance.  Yes, some things are thrown in our lives just at the right time and we need to jump on them.  But, I hope most of the time we have hopes and dreams and make those things happen.